We had to go back to Japan later that year so that my husband could finish his research, and while we were there I bought a beautiful Petunia Pickle Bottom Ergo. It was gorgeous, and I was so excited to use it with my then 11 month old. However, it soon destroyed my back, and I was stuck in bed for four days! My husband had left for a conference overseas when the pain began, and I panicked. We had no family in Japan, and I didn't feel I had anyone I could call on for help.
We were living in university accomodation while my husband did research for his thesis, and I was able to ask the ladies at the front desk for help. They rang a chiropractor for me, and sent me off in a taxi. Because I was so panicked, I let them keep my baby. We were still nursing, and it was the first time I'd left him with anyone in his life. I cried for three whole hours while we were apart! I got back from the chiropractor, only to discover that the office ladies had sent my little baby to a temporary daycare by car, with a woman who did not own a carseat... I waited nervously in my quiet apartment hoping and hoping that he would make it home without incident!
My son got home, happy as a clam, and had even taken a nap with the daycare ladies. I had been chatting with an acquaintance while I waited for my son to make his dangerous car ride home, and she kindly offered to come help for the rest of the afternoon. Once she arrived she quickly realised I was unable to take care of my baby alone, and offered to have me stay at her house until my husband got back from overseas. I don't think I've ever been so grateful to anyone in all my life. I still feel I have not repaid the favour!
My husband got home just as I was beginning to be able to walk straight, so I don't think he ever fully realised what a scary experience it all was for me. This is why, if ever someone asks about Ergo I say "Lots of people love them, but I can't recommend them!"
After such a sad story, here are a couple of cute photos of us in our Ergo, before all the kerfuffle.
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